Dear S,
I’m a 32-year-old straight man who just discovered a new and morally dubious kink. I met a woman at a bar, She was visiting my city on a work trip. She was open about the fact that she was married, but very much okay with cheating on her husband. We ended up having s*x, that night, and ever since then, I haven’t been able to stop thinking about it.

There was something so hot about doing something we “shouldn’t.” I love the thought of lying and sneaking around, and the risk of getting caught, even though I’d never actually want to get caught by anyone’s husband.
Case in point, I want to sleep with more married women. I recently told my friends about my homewrecker kink, and they judged the shit out of me for it. They said what I want to do is wrong and messed up. It doesn’t seem that bad to me—after all, it takes two to tango. So my question is: What are the ethics of a homewrecker kink? Is what I did (and what I want to keep doing) wrong?
—Homewrecker
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